Sunday, August 06, 2006

First Coast Chinese Children's Waiting Families Meeting

If you have a local group of Waiting Families, we recommend attending. Our past meeting agenda featured four Dad's with Chinese daughters. They discussed the paper chase, the trip to China, their first experience with attachment and all other post-adoption challenges. Two had used sign language as a way to communicate early with their daughter's. We are convinced this helps with attachment and adjustment. We're equally convinced that signing helps to reduce frustration, both for parent and baby, brought on by not being able to communicate verbally. We have already purchased several tools to use like flash cards and "Baby Signs" (board books and DVD set). The "Baby Signs" are sold by Discovery Toys. We enjoyed hearing from the four Dads' and visiting with Kim and Joel (Ruby is Coming). See you all next month!

1 Comments:

At 8/07/2006 06:36:00 PM, Blogger Rina, John & Annalisa said...

I'm glad you got lots of good information from the Waiting Family Meeting. I really enjoyed attending them as well.

As far as the signing. We used signing with Annalisa as well (she is now 19 months old). It really helps...and you don't really have to teach her that many signs. Enough for her to communicate her basic needs.

At first it seemed like she wasn't getting it. We signed to her for almost two months (she was 11 months old when she came home last November) and then one day all of a sudden she started to sign.

We also taught her to sign Please, Thank you and I love you. It's priceless to see her do it.

Good luck!

 

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